Surrender Is Not Giving Up
Giving up closes the question. Surrender keeps it open. The two feel almost identical in the body — here is how to tell them apart.
Read →Field notes
Essays on the question.
Short essays from inside the practice. Some are case-shaped. Some are unfinished. All are written when a question would not leave me alone.
When the Answer Will Not Land
The analysis is done, the options are clear, and the answer still will not land. What is missing is not more information — it is a better question.
Read →What I never learned
On the year my father died, the losses I have been carrying without processing, and what I am only now learning about the difference between carrying on and grief.
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